My daughter is getting married in July. I have spent a ton of time looking for a dress and finally found one that looks good on me, but it's black, which I've heard is not appropriate. The bridesmaids are wearing beautiful short stone dresses. The groomsmen will be in black tuxes. The flowers are ivory and pinks. Champagne and latte colors don't look great on me and I don't want to wear a color which might make me stand out . The groom's mom is wearing taupe.
Would black be appropriate for a July wedding? The reception will be in the evening and in the city. Please help!
Sincerely,
Mom of the Bride
Dear Mother of the Bride,
I applaud you for taking a critical eye to this situation and assessing what would be most appropriate. Too often mothers and mothers in law fail to spend the time and energy dressing appropriately for such a big occasion. After all, this milestone is a very large one for you too and you should also be soaking in some of the spotlight.
You mention several key factors which make black absolutely appropriate. While it is not the most summery of colors, the wedding is downtown and takes place during the evening. The colors your daughter chose (which sound so lovely) are also formal and would be perfectly complemented next to black. Finally, it sounds like this dress looks great on you. That is most important. As long as you aren't wearing a color anywhere within the white or off white family (never trump the bride!!) you are just fine. If you feel great you will be that much more comfortable throughout the night.
Congratulations to you and the bride to be. Sounds like a gorgeous and very special night ahead. I am certain you will look spectacular!
Oh, and for a little more reinforcement on the matter - I decided to see what Emily Post had to say. Check out her updated list of wedding rules and regs right here.
Black Dress Approved!
Lara
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If I could offer a piece of advice as a former groom. Make sure you tell your daughter's husband-to-be of your black dress intentions.
The last thing he's going to want to flash through his head is that you're in mourning because he's marrying your daughter.
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